Last Saturday, 17 May, we buried our uncle. A very talkative man, another uncle quipped that he was a teller of stories - real and unreal. He went by many names, but was popularly known as Sgidla. My mother explained that he was born a big child, and therefore was given the nickname "Sgidla". In the early 1990s, he worked at a hair factory in Uitenhage where he "accidentally" lost one of his fingers. I say accidentally, because one of his colleagues, whom we met in Port Elizabeth in the early 1990s, who was surprised to learn that Sgidla was our uncle, told us that in fact the man deliberately caused the so called accident. He told us that our uncle was such a feisty character, who gave "amabhulu" a very hard time. They had given him another name - Magib'sela! This injury led to his retrenchment. He told everyone who cared to listen that he was disabled and therefore was entitled to disability grant. Indeed he got his disability grant. We have kno...